I'm reading a great book I found at my Christian book store.

http://www.reconcilinggodsway.com/2order.html


It says a lot of the same things as divorce busters, but more focused on Christianity. The co author, Michelle Williams, talks about how she finally starting letting God be the focus of her life and stopped depending on a man to make her happy. I think it's the same as focusing on yourself and making yourself more appealing to your spouse. Am I just way of base?