Thanks for the input. I know Saffie is asleep so I will hear from her later. I know Yoyo and Tal are softies that is why I asked for your opinion also Sara. You are my right to the point woman. I like most of your changes but am a little nervous at this time for the one statement: "This is important. Do not underestimate my seriousness in saying this: I will not simply continue to live in an unhappy marriage." .
I think that will be great if this letter does not change our sitch. I do like the other things you added Sara. (you gave the letter a little more balls). Thanks My W took mine away long ago A side from being intimate we are doing really well. Part of the problem that I need to work on is my mis trust. Not that it is not justified. It's just that (As I always say) need to deal with facts. For instance she was talking on the phone to her friend about her "girls night out" What they we talking about is possible a pot luck at another friends house. So it's not like they are going out bar hopping. I will be honest. I am scared. I am planning on sending this letter next Tuesday. I go back to work on Monday. Family wise things are good. But I don't really have a companion and I am afraid of losing what little attention I get now. But I guess I need to do this. As Theo and Mark would say I either need to sh$t or get off the pot. I know now more than ever Yoyo what you meant by being afraid about being alone.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
