You know, I gotta say, I think I'm seeing another double-standard, here, and I find it amusing. While the learned ones like Schnarch and MWD et al. say that this ld/hd thing is 50/50 male/female, and then provide studies to back up that assertion, we don't seem to be able to break away from this cultural belief that it simply isn't so...if a woman is ld, its not really "abnormal", and is the natural and understandable result of overwhelming stresses in life, and blah blah blah, yadda yadda yadda. But if a guy presents the same...well, he must have some severe and advanced psychosis, or he's gay. (not that there's anything wrong with that).
at the same time...I gotta say, I just don't get why a guy would deny his hot wife. but that's because I'm an hd guy.
What if I were to suggest that ld women (or those merely "uninterested") were lesbians? Ha! can you imagine the fallout?? like a scene in a sports-bar...any girl that turns you down.."pfft. lesbian!"
As for the "confusion" thing...I'm reminded of a Carlos Mencia skit, where he was dressed up in a foam animal/character costume, doing an "inappropriate" kids show, singing this song: (to the tune of "If you're happy and you know it...") If you think you might be gay, then, you're gay (clap! clap!) If you think you might be gay, then, you're gay! (clap! clap!)
