Why not just operate from the assumption that her A is in full gear, a PA, and she is pretty excited about it right now? Then, you can stop worrying about it. Assume the worst so you don't have to obsess about it. Then, settle in to DB or not.
I happen to disagree with this. No reason to give yourself false despair more than false hope. I'd say just accept that you can't control it, and try to focus on what you can control. It might be full blown. It might not. Doesn't matter much. You can't control your W or OM. Only Heim.
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link