Dating, [. . .] be aware though it could end up with you moving on more quickly
This is VERY TRUE!! One of the women I have been "dating" wrote this to me moments ago:
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You are a gorgeous man!!! You're wife is crazy for letting you go...and I'm sure she will be upset when she does actually lose you and realizes what a great man she had. You're a great catch for any woman and you're sweet, charming, sexy, [Edited], warm, cuddly and a whole lot of fun to be with. I feel very lucky to have met you and [Edited]!! [Edited]
The VIBE is coming from you, [Edited]...feeling sexy after all this time, and looking darn sexy!!! This is only the beginning for you. Only good things are coming your way from here on in. (one of them being ME!) And you deserve it. I can't believe how you could go thru life without being with someone who cares about you, who could care less about your needs and desires. Baby doll, you deserve a lot more than what you've been given the past couple of years and it's time for you to enjoy being a man and feeling desirable. You need to flirt, have beautiful women look and smile at you, build up your confidence and make you feel good!!!
You know what GD? She's right!!! I do deserve more/better. And you know what else? That could have easily been written to you, without a doubt. You deserve more too.
Did we make mistakes in our M/Rs? Absolutely. Have we learned from and atoned for them? You bet we have. Are/were we ready to jump through hoops to make it right, to make it work? Yes we were, and maybe still are. Now, we each have two basic choices - (1) wait some more, because saving our M is still our primary goal and most important to us right now, or (2) move on with our lives realizing that our WAS may never want to be a part of it again (and seeing where things are, without knowing, if they decide to come back). That's a personal choice. For me, now, I am on to number 2.
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
