She should be in the shabby apt. and CVA in the house. If she wants out, if she wants time and space to think, this gives her all of that.
CVA is letting her have her cake and eat it too.
OK, in the interest of full disclosure, this has not worked out perfectly for me as my WAW is still living in our guest room. Nevertheless, I believe that it is (at least for me) the right thing to do.
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