I can honestly say I do not know what I would do if my W came back to me right now and said she wanted to work on things. If she seemed to be genuine interested in doing the hard work and making the long-term commitment (a BIG if), I would have a tough choice.

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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