Regarding him being an alpha male-- he doesn't need to be. He is extremely attractive and charming, so women basically come on to him.
Regarding the family thing--yes, he is VERY resentful about that. Like he said "We should have gone with my parents last year but YOU wouldn't let us." I said I understood, I was very sorry and I would go anywhere he wanted this year. That is what prompted that he isn't ready to do that. *sigh*
Regarding feeling like he is backing me into a plan B--you are right, it would be my CHOICE. Good call on your part. I think that if I am going to show any self-respect, I will be forced into it. He says he needs to miss me, decide if he can't live without me, etc. If I continue to give him sex and comfort him when he feels lonely, what will make him realize what he would lose if I wasn't there? He says that he doesn't want to "lead me on" and that he doesn't have any idea if we will end up together. (I don't actually think the odds are in my favor.) He also said that if 'this is too hard' for me, then I can let him know.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
