Originally Posted By: Dom R
with "what you did"??
maybe you should put 'what you did' in your sig. i dont remember what that is.


Dom, if you click on the link at bottom of my sig you'll see. I was being ignorant, selfish, and immature, and made my wife feel like she can't be herself for all these years. I pretty much did my share of killing her already shaky self confidence. It broke her heart and made her feel worthless. I hurt her very badly in that aspect through my ignorance.

Of course now she has a very difficult time believing that I don't think that way any longer. And I've no idea how to explain it to her that realization and knowledge can change one's perspective very rapidly.... Nor do I have any idea what I can do to show her that.....


M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93