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Maybe, as Nomo alludes to, he's doing this out of pain and fear of losing you.


My sentiments exactly -- he's doing it because he has no other control over your choices and emotions. He's doing it in an attempt to win you back. Horrible tactic, of course, but it is definitely getting your attention. I've said this before -- once he sees that this has only pushed you further away or caused you to have more resentment, he may actually hit rock bottom, let go of his pride, and begin taking a hard look at himself. That's my perspective, anyway. Maybe he's moving on, but I seriously doubt it. He's in his angry phase, and will just have to work through it.

Just take care of you and use reason combined with emotion to make decisions, and make sure you reflect enough on these decisions before you actually follow through with them.

GD


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