Dancin' Like Nobody's Watching

[christarn]

I agree with the dating thing....I don't want to date for the pure fact that why drag somebody else into the mess I've already created...and hands down I would go back to my H if I had to choose, so here in lies somebody else getting hurt in the middle of our mess....IMHO you are doing the right thing...plus you have your kids to think of...no need to have them getting more confused. I think you are doing the right thing for your sitch too, your wife sees your changes and she is with someone who she thought was going to be her prince charming...and instead he's a fart in the wind! I'm sure she does compare, and probably beat herself up thinking what have I done...what mess have I gotten myself into...I know I do. Keep stayin strong, dancin the dance, sounds to me like you are on the right track!