I sure know what you are saying. I'm not sure why. I think in some ways he was trying to share and give me encoragement. That he had finally come to a decision But you have a good point. Why not wait until he was done with her. We have talked a lot about being open and honest and without it, we could not have a marriage.
You would think that with all he told her (if that was true), that she wouldn't want to be with him on her B-day. I wouldn't. This next week or so will be interesting. I'm going to try to remain detached. It is sad to say, but I have almost gotten use to this way of living.
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H 48 W 57 M 15 yrs T 18 yrs No children EA 1/12/06 Moved out 3/10/07 & 8/16/07 Back on 5/18/07 2nd Thread