I think you should get a tattoo of that reminder not to bring up OM -- LOL!
Good job on taking on the bday invite responsibilities. Well done lad! Also, great job validating about not calling before going to the house.
Regarding OM...
You're right -- she'll call him or she won't. Let go of thinking you can help the sitch by confronting her with it or even mentioning it. You know by now it only makes her uncomfortable and causes her to associate you with negative feelings. I'm posting the current sitch with W's BF soon on my thread, so if you want to see how the R's with OP's just need to run their course without you getting involved, come over and read up.
Hope your Saints get it together tonight -- I'll be dancing, but I'm Tivoing it and watching it when I'm done.
