I just feel jipped that other woman are enjoying my husband when he never wanted me in that way.
Pity those women. You do what you feel best in your heart. You're in a difficult spot.
One thought, you're H's lack of desire toward you -- was that after your D was born? I know that some men have a hard time being with their wife after watching her sprout a second head (if you know what I mean).
Also, his lack of desire and willingness to date other women says less about you than about him. Maybe he sees you taking control of your life and can't accept it. If so, in all honesty, you're better off without him. Maybe, as Nomo alludes to, he's doing this out of pain and fear of losing you. Maybe he's just a dipwad who doesn't know what he's got -- from here, WAW, FWIT, you sound mighty fetching (and I mean that in a platonic way).
Regardless, for now, he's done. Keep growing and be pleasant towards him, if for no other reason than for your D's sake. Who knows, he might still turnaround.
Maybe it's time to put those boob shirts to use. Joking, sorta.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
