K, Thes past few posts have brought to mind something puzzling pertaining to my H's FOO. When I met H, he was very close to his mother and had conflict with his father. His mother was the emotionally giving one. Over time, and certainly in the last few yrs, my H seems to have developed a lot of resentment toward his mother, while he embraces any crumbs his father sends his way. I cringe when he says something bad about his mother because I remember how she was with him. I just don't get it.
