It seems to me he worries a lot when you want to do something. That is why I think this would be a great opportunity for this to be a 180. Turn the tables on him just a little to add mystery for one and also to see what it feels like. But in a nice way. lol Because you don't have to be very nasty or anything about it. Just simply say honey you don't like me asking you about your whereabouts. Can't this go both ways, I just need some time for me.
You have to stop feeling bad about your daughter. You are a great mom. You can tell she is not used to you having time for yourself. Because you don't seem to take the time. All mom's need some time for themselves to unwind. I know how this situation is because I was guilty of it myself. I always always put everyone before myself.
That is great that he is starting to help out some. : ) Maybe there are even things you could suggest he do to help. Because men can't read our minds. I had to learn myself to start asking. I would sit an stew because he didn't just realize I needed help more. lol If you know for sure that the calls are taking place then maybe bring up that boundary. But that is a decision that is personal to you. We all have a different thresehold for what we can tolerate. You just have to decide what it is that is just to disrespectful and draw the line.
