Faith that is great news about him deciding. I am very happy for you in a way. But then in another sense I was also angered when I read your post. You also just had a b-day. Did he give a damn that what he was doing was hurting you!? Sometimes I just can't believe the cheating spouse's can have the mentality they do. But then again I am a spouse with morals who takes my vows seriously. Why the heck would he tell you he can't do this until after seeing her again for her b-day. Some things are better left unsaid.
