Yes - I know that there is real "data" here that suggests a problem.
However, RJ's description helped. She's describing a guy who "changed". I'm describing a guy whose already low libido got even lower. Makes me think this is not a problem of a new EA or PA but rather a more systemic type problem.
I'll have to think on things. One thing that I need to think about is how to nurture myself because I suspect that we are about to go through some tough times. I'm less given to the snooping plan because the lengths I would have to go to would make me feel rather disengenous but forthright honesty would be a start.
