Morgan, I know where you are coming from, feeling like you are in the fog. You are sounding like you are reaching the point where you are about to give up. I think we all kind of put a 6 month limit once we're separated. I just don't think a man has a nervous breakdown when he is getting what he wants in life. I forgot to mention this in relaying my friends story. The H had a nervous breakdown and got physically ill when everything fell apart. Maybe it does have mostly to do with the kids, but that's ok. It doesn't matter what brings them back. I know it hurts our ego, but we take what we can and work from there.
Take care.
(((HUGS)))
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9