what is the ow thinking??

[theoden]

Olive,

Wow...Lovely Olive the sexual dynamo...oozing the heat, baby!

1. The guy in church was inappropriate, he was hitting on you. Actually it's inappropriate anywhere -- your both married. He's a player.

2. You FIL...well....hmmm....looks like the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

[lovelyolive]

Lovely Olive the sexual dynamo...oozing the heat, baby!

... uh huh.. that's me .. hahahaha!!!

So, do you really think that guy was hitting on me? I must be stupid - I just thought he was being a smarta$$.

Yah.. FIL - he's a cheater, too. He is gross. He tried to kiss me on the lips about 5 times. WTH?? He makes me want to puke.

[mcojh]

Here's what you do the next time FIL tries that. It is from the movie Dodgeball.

As he moves in, stop him and as you pretend to swallow something, say, "sorry, I had to swallow my own vomit when I pictured kissing you."

[lovelyolive]

Nice MC..

[saffie]

Saffie

[chicki]

Theo & Ol,

Yeah I've been praying for my FIl to get a clue and wake up too. Well recently FIL moved outof his GF or their house). After he got the house for her (on disability and fixed it all up). Meanwhile MIL is living out of the country pinching pennies.
Maybe if our H's FIL start to wake up their sons might too?

[ourcrisis]

LO, the guy is hitting on you, for sure.
FIL is totally out of line. This is sick.
But you know now for sure you are a HOT BABE!!!!

[runningoutoftime]

I think this attraction you are ooooozing indicates you've detached and GALed. Now you just have to accept the fact you are a man-magnet.

Oh, and your original question about OW. For her to hang on so desperately to a married man who can't give 100% to her shows desperation and unhealthy attachment. She's definitely not a man-magnet.

[lovelyolive]

ROOT - a man-magnet, huh? I can honestly say that I have NEVER been called that... I kinda' like it, though.. hahahahaha!!!!

So, I casually mentioned the lunch with my x-coworker to H this afternoon. He didn't say much.. kind of grunted and said "oh really" then, completely changed the subject. Hmm... not sure what to make of that.

Another observation: One of my NEW male co-workers is in my office about 5 times a day with "issues" or needing "advice". He's also called me at home a few times in the past month. Not sure what to think of that. Maybe he's just a high-maintenance manager. I am pretty charming, after all...

[mcojh]

When the day for your date comes, make sure H knows about it and make sure you wear something low cut and slinky. Maybe a tube top and Daisy Duke shorts.