Bryan, you will notice, well you are kind of noticing, that the DB principals are only a guide for use, they are not law. They are there to point is the correct direction. Like you are finding out everyone's sitch is different, yet similar, but our partners and we all act and react differently and the principals need to be tweaked a bit to fit our individual sitch.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
