Having followed WAW from the beginning, while, yes, I can sympathize with WAW's H on one level and I am positive that he is confused and scared. However, unlike you and I, WAW has told her H exactly what she needs from him to make their R and M work and he steadfastly refuses to acknowledge/accept any blame/responsibility on his part. Hence the donkey comment.
Ok, that makes sense. But in my sitch, the longer this goes, and the longer my WAS stays "away," the more I begin to believe this is less about my issues and more about her issues. Maybe I am deluding myself as well.
WAW, again, I respect you for all your efforts, and think the key for you (and for all of us really) is to focus on you, what your want and what you control. It's so hard, but it's so key.
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
