Chicki, Thanks, don't always feel like I'm good at this.
Nomo,
Having followed WAW from the beginning, while, yes, I can sympathize with WAW's H on one level and I am positive that he is confused and scared. However, unlike you and I, WAW has told her H exactly what she needs from him to make their R and M work and he steadfastly refuses to acknowledge/accept any blame/responsibility on his part. Hence the donkey comment.
Oh, and WAW, still doesn't sound to me like you're done. Frustrated as hell, yes. Finished trying to make this work, no. Focus on you and make yourself a stronger person, which you are doing. He'll notice and come back or he won't. Either way, you'll be happier.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY