Did you take your ring off, because you don't believe in the Marriage or saving it, or did you take it off because your mad?
You don't have to wait anymore? You can accept the fact that your husband does not want to change, and is now using the fact that you left as an excuse, to behave badly or you can wait it out a little longer.
My wife has had her ring off for almost two months, I don't even care about the ring anymore. Mine is still on, I catch her checking my hand at least three times a week. I will not react to her actions. I act on my feelings. For me it would have been wrong to react, she does not have any power, I do not feel guilty, I just want my family back, put not to the point where I would compromise my standards or beliefs.
I wish you well I know it is hard.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
