DO I have to wait it out? Nope, you can quit any time you want, Are you a quitter?
DO I just have to give the best I can give? Nope, some people just go through life giving hardly any effort at all. Do you want to be one of those people?
Do I really simply have to realize my goals and work on myself to get things going again?
If you don't realize and work on yourself, who do you think will? It is up to you to be happy, not up to someone else to make you happy! Is there a chance of getting back together again after we went through this financial hell together?????
Sounds like if you can accomplish that in a good way should create some kind of bond.
Hang in there, it took me about 3 months after reading the book and lurking, before I started to get what to do and what not to do.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
