Your H is a donkey. I guess the answer depends on you: how long can you hold on/do you want to hold on?
Maybe it's worth one last face-to-face, heart-to-heart talk from you to him telling him everything you've laid out to us here. If he won't acknowledge your point of view, well, hate to say it, but doesn't sound like much of a chance to save things if he sees no problems in himself.
Then, you'll be free to troll Target for under-aged boys to proposition you as often as you'd like.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY