Karen, how lovely of you to take our sometimes over-the-top comments with such grace. Of course, I knew you would because you are so full of grace yourself.
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H is steryotypically masculine, Alpha, refused to see Brokeback Mountain because he shies away from specific references to gay sex but will laugh at movies that involve gay humor, ... My H is probably too puritanical to fit in with most gays even if he is gay - he HATES casual sexuality in anyone.
also describes my bf to a T. OTOH he is a wonderful dresser with great taste, he was married for 25 years. She was into alcohol and drugs, but not to the extent that he was. He is also very prudish and doesn't even like sexy humor. He despises promiscuity in any form. His mom slept around some while raising him alone. He used to go in his room and stick his fingers in his ears so he couldn't hear. He just doesn't associate much that's pleasant and safe with sex. My bf also has an adolescent quality about him that it sounds like your H has a bit of.
What is your H's R with his mom like?
Fran, it sounds like something serious is going on with your H.
