PS: Found out that H was in fact on a date the other night. Didn't make me jealous, more of a WTF moment? Won't have relations with me but trying it out with someone else?
Wedding bands for him are off. He is not attending MC or IC anymore. Moving on with his life. Can't wait to get rid of my totally.
So as the WAS who really wanted to leave to force him to recognize that he was treating me poorly and work on things...how much longer am I expected to keep this up? I am still going to IC as I feel its important to address whatever characted flaws I have and I think I would like to continue to see the MC alone.
Any thoughts?
PS: I took my wedding band off after seeing he isn't wearing his and put non trad engagement ring on the right hand as Kelley had suggested. Its got sapphires so no one notices that its not a regular ring.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.