Good day for this one NOPs. It is like the issue of why "eye witnesses" aren't as reliable as we like to think they are. There is discussion on my thread of what, if any, sexual secret my H is hiding that causes him to not act sexually within our R. Whatever it is I'm quite sure it is easier to "explain" to himself while keeping it hidden. In the light of day more explanation becomes necessary and confabulation becomes more obvious.
