What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

Thanks Jak.....always welcomed advice.

He kept text messaging me last night oblivious to what he has done. I guess he doesn't see it as wrong as we are not "married" anymore. I do. This is a time where rebuilding trust and security with someone is crucial. The past year has been hell and full of hurt.

One thing I thought about over the weekend...I was checking into our hotel on Saturday and he was out in the car still. I came out and he was angry. He had scrolled through my phone and was angry that someone I had briefly dated when we were apart was still in my phone!!! I dated one person for about a month and realized I wasn't ready. Exh has been through so many women. I haven't talked to this guy in a long time. Seems pretty hypocritical to get mad at me for something he is doing himself....

I'm sick of being hurt. I'm sick of being lied to. I don't care if he thinks they are friends....they are past ex lovers and probably pretty recently knowing him.

He should be texting or calling today defending himself and getting mad at me.