cpolk is right you can not make him stop. He has to decide that on his own. That is why you set the boundry. You did good telling him that when he was done he could contact you. NOW GO DARK!!!
He seems to be getting back in to easy you need to make him do some thinking by detaching.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
