I agree with the others that to say anything about OM staying whilst you are away would be counterproductive.
In fact, if you are away, even if you DD is at a sleep over, your W can't really get up to much, as one never knows as a parent if you will get a call suddenly to pick your child up, (they might get poorly or homesick). So I am sure your wife will know that she still has to be available for your DD and that would stop her arranging anything untoward with OM.
Glad to hear I didn't scare you away!!!
Cabbage PATCH DOLLS are SCARY - JUST LIKE MY H's OW was/is!!!LMFAO
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
