But it is also a legitimate question. How DO YOU top going to the moon? Or any other thing one might do that puts you in 'the best of the best' situation?
It is even like incredibly beautiful women who think their lives are over, become severely depressed, when they lose their looks to age.
Each of those things are incredibly different, but what is felt by the people when they lose 'THE THING' they think defines them... is the same. And each and every one of them, as part of the process, will try and convince you why, "no, it isn't like that for me... it's different for me, there is no way you could possibly understand... you just don't get it."
Well. No. I'm not the one who isn't getting it. And I don't say that in a critical, cross way.