RHW,

Thanks, your opinion has really hit home.

I have done so well to date, and I can't keep "worrying" about things that may or may not happen.

Like Neph said, I can't really control what she does, so why worry about it.

Thanks heaps,
AndyV

AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."