My W sort of knows that my parents know. I did not disclose the true extent of how angry they are with her. She thinks that my parents think it is only a separation/divorce based on her wanting out, and that she is now seeing someone. I told them way back when, about how she had started the R with OM whilst I was away on a business trip for 6 weeks, then she decided to separate to pursue OM when I got back.
Also, they know it is physical, W assumes everyone thinks it is a friendship until after the D, like she has told her family. Her reasoning is "Its nobody's business what I do, they don't need to know."
Had a good day at work. I am exhausted though, stayed up to watch the whole game, got to bed at 1am and up again at 5am.
