I must say, you seem to be handling things much better, not that you haven't always been strong, what with basically going it along and putting together an awesome home and taking the best care of your kids, and running your own business, and.... well, you get the idea.
I especially admire the way you are standing up the the H (or is that AH? Ha! Figure that one out. ) and not letting him dictate everything and control the sitch.
Jules - Kim needs some good ol' girl talk and support, too, so you keep in touch with her, 'k?