I think she's right, it is tempting to consider ending it & moving on to move out of limbo. The end result though, is that you would just trade it for something else that might not be pleasent either.
This is absolutely true, IMO. It is actually like moving from one form of limbo to another -- esp if you haven't actually moved on and are still hoping for or desiring your spouse to come back.
Great point, Sunny!
You are BOTH inspirations for me! You both handle everything so well and with such independence. I love reading up on your sitches just to witness this!