SB, Since you're on right now, would you mind heading over to newcomers for a minute? There is a new thread called "What to do next" by Keystone. I think what I told him is ok, but he could use some info/support from some wiser people than me. He's got some major issues to work through (verbal abuse) before his W is coming home. If you get the chance, thanks,
Erin
"A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing."
-George Bernard Shaw
...Should Shiny be asleep? Probably but I'm here instead.
Very nice dinner, I played sous chef for H. Maybe a little disappointed that he fell asleep (off and on) shortly after 10:00, but I caught a few interesting T.V. programs and then thought I'd check on a few threads before turning in.
Just finished my first post. Many similarities to your long term sitch without the A. My rollercoaster goes so far up, and so far down, every day.
Passed you on my way down tonight, and I think your coaster was going up.
Take the money. Transfer needed monies to regular account for bills. Could be wrong but H. may feel more accepted and/or safe if you take his offering of peace.(and security) Perhaps he feels he cant trust himself right now and needs you to feel safe. It cant hurt . Best of luck to you and him.
P.S. You will find me in piecing under Killing Me Softly
Wish my post was more lucid, but I cant even keep track of my own thoughts right now. Left so much out of my post that happened tonight because of blurry screen, that I do not know if it is even clear.
I guess my posts must be more confusing than I intend. Our C session was last Wed. It went well. More focus on H's job search, some communication stuff clarified.
In General:
Nothing too exciting to report (I think, at this point, that's a good thing!).
Went to a pal's place to play darts last night. Had a good time. I sat right beside H, some body contact, something I didn't do enough of in the past.
Today we went to view the student art show at one of our local galleries. That was nice. Made me feel a little sad about having to work all summer long, as I always plan to draw and paint on my holidays. (Notice I said "plan", because I don't always follow through ).
Managed to do an 80 minute work out yesterday and 30 minutes of yoga today, so I do feel good about that. Now, if I could just get rid of this headache....
How's that for the most inane post ever! Sorry you had to read it!
Many similarities to your long term sitch without the A. My rollercoaster goes so far up, and so far down, every day. 
Afternoon 