In the MLC forum, they talk about dropping the rope a lot. It refers to completely letting go of the MLCer. Any area of influence must be let go to allow them the space to complete the MLC process. Now, my understanding is that not everyone who has an affair is in an MLC, but affairs are a very common component of someone who is having an MLC. I think MK's H is pretty classic. My H seems to be there too. I don't think you or Morgan are really dealing with MLC. Your H's are still enough like the men you knew to recognize them and they haven't neglected their kids or their responsibilities in general. They have betrayed their spouse and become monsters to you beautiful women, don't get me wrong. They are still aliens. I'm still reading up on MLC. I think MK could probably add a lot more here.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
