I guess that is were open and honest communication comes into play. But, it almost seems like open honest talk about how we feel goes against the principal of no R talk.
Isn't it a pickle?! It can make a person nuts.
I certainly hope the convo it didn't hurt anything.
I really lost it this afternoon. Last night we had talked about him going to get bacon and mochas this morning and I would make breakfast. By the time we got up and he did some stuff, it was late'ish (after 1) and he goes "Well, I'm gonna go soon." I was so upset. (More so than I should have been.) I was hungry and disappointed. I started crying. Ugh.
He did give me a hug. Asked why I was upset. And I told him that I was hungry and mad. He asked about what and I said "everything". Luckily, by the time he actually left we were discussing the logistics for next weekend, so I guess I didn't screw anything up too bad with my meltdown.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
