I have a question for the WAW. You had a husband that gave you everything you wanted. It by your admission was not "enough". Looking back on you leaving. What gave you your resolve? What in your mind made you say "I am done"? "I don't know" will not do it for me. I ask this question for personal reasons but also to try and delve into the WAW mindset. From my perception, as skewed as it may be, I feel like I am missing someting. I am reading into it that the EA was part of why you left.
This situation is kinda like what I am walking through myself. How does the seperation solve anything? What makes you "find yourself" in this situation? Your LBS GAL and now you want to reconcile. Now you are the LBS. To take something I have heard a lot of "Your timing is all off."
I once told my wife that I could have been the best Husband ever and we would still be right here. She took offence to it. Fair enough. Look at what was just posted. I gotta go out on a limb and say "This is the best post ever!" For all you LBS out the guess what.... You don't have to be a distant, angry, S for someone to "walk out". For some reason you HAVE to go through this.
LittleBitLost.... To you I say thanks. I needed this post like you don't know.
I will go a little bit different than most posters here and say You gotta show him you want him and no one else. He stood in front of you and said "I need you". He was showing you the way. He wanted you to make him feel special. You did not. Now you are fighting the GAL. Maybe you are fighting the OW. This is a really hard thing for me to give you advise on because your guy is a Caretaker and I am Physical. Is the friend "needy?" Post some more I gotta spin (Think About) this a little bit.
Oh yea and what Gone Dancin said.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
