In regards to the D, do not agree to anything less then what you want. It is much more difficult to change the decree once it is signed by the judge. Make the changes you want before it gets filed.
I do not support the D. I realize that at this point, there is nothing that I can do. Maybe in the future we will have a future. I am carefully making the changes that I want. W keeps getting mad at me because I have been taking forever. She makes threats that she will call her atty and say this is contested. She never follows through. I will get my changes made this week.
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On another note, the things your wife says seems to really get under your skin. I truly understand how it can, but you can't let it. You need to detach from her and her comments.
YOu are right, I need to just stop reacting. At times, she'll send me a text that pisses me off and I'll call her back to argue my point or try to make her understand...I know, I know...Stupid on my part. I will continue to work on detaching and stop reacting to her.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
