What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

Well, crap hit the fan.....he was here and we were watching football and his phone starts going off....he was a bit intoxicated and started answering these texts. He didn't know I was peering over his shoulder. It was to an old flame from before we were even dating that was completely obcessed with him. I believe she still is. It was random flirty texts.

I've had it....omg the guy needs his ego boosted! He just left and I sent him a text telling him when he wants to close the doors to all the other women and have a real relationship and family to let me know. I probably shouldn't have done that, but I hate this....he is such a liar.

How can he act and say one thing and then flirt with these other women at the same time? It makes me sick.

Now, am I unreasonable to ask for faithfulness here? We are trying to work things out and he is still flirting with past loves.

I need to draw that boundary line in the sand. This may have been it. OW was one thing that was tough....now its another.