Ok...first off SD...it sounds like you have hit him upside the head with it pretty hard. However IMHO you need to let him know what will happen if he does not meet your needs.
Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl
[quote=swashy]I am SICK of excuses. I WON'T live in a passionless marriage.
Bingo.
And one more thing. I remember you giving some advice to Carrie at one point. Basically I remember that she was having a hard time getting past her H's A and you had told her that this was for her to do...not her H. Not sure I agree with that. And if your H hasn't done that for you...I have to question if that plays into all of this for you.
If memory serves me right...Michelle even says that at some point the person who has had the A HAS to apologize for it time and time again for true healing to happen. You don't need to carry that burden too SD. That is something he needs to give you in order to be with you in my opinion. He wronged you. What kind of a world are we living in where people who commit wrongs of this magnitude do not need to at least try and make up for them.
