LMAO about TX thing, there's always a tear in my beer, so the song goes, wb cva, I guess its time for happy hour soon. I will still settle with my non-alcoholic drink. I've been making my paycheck for today so I couldnt waste time to post until now.
What's everyone up to this weekend? TX does have some fine fillies though. Midwest aint too bad either but I had never seen an anglo woman without some tails on her. lol.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...
Vancouver has some beautiful women! I did not touch!
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Yeah yeah, one hot chick makes any kind of mov e on me and it may be lights out! Seriously, I have no clue how I would react so not putting myself in any harms way right now.
Ok, sitting here drinking a coule of Coronas out by my pool and in our outdoor living area watching the kids swim and thinking, I know, dangerous!
Here is what has been going thru my mind, if I get a house, which I looked for again Fri mng, I will be (I) sending her a clear signal which may / may not backfire and (ii) may cause me to Totally detach to the point I don't give a rats ass about what hapens here. I mean I can already feel myself losing any kind of feeling for her when we are apart.
Please, those who have followed me, tell me what u think?
I am going out of town again tomorrow- wed and when I told W, she seemed keenly interest in when I was leaving and when I was coming back. Not suspicious, just interested.
Again, other than sleeping together, we act like a couple? No hugs or kissing, but u know what I mean.
C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
I think you should do what YOU want to do-which I think is get a house. You're sick of that apartment. Don't worry about her reaction, and whether it wil backfire. She kicked you out. If she doesn't want you getting a house, let her either (1) switch places with you or (2) invite you back home. Now, having said that, I think you should have a calm discussion with her in which you inform her of your decision and reasons. They are your joint finances, and she deserves to know an out this big financial decision. But I see you telling her that the apt arrangements are not acceptable, not reasonable for you to maintain.
Just my thoughts. Hope you're well.
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
I concure with everything Nomo just said, and currently have nothing else to add. I think he makes an excellent point too that you should confer with the Mrs. before making any formal committments.
P.S. I love Vancouver -- I'm sure it was a good time! When ya gonna make your way to Boise?
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
CVA, I have not followed your sitch so closely, but I am always a bit astonished when I hear of LBS's who move out of their home and away from their kids. What made you agree to leave? You already have a house, why not move back in and tell W she can either take over your apt. lease or get her own damn place?
I made it 100% clear that there was 1 way I would leave the house/kids and that was with a court order. Of course, she is still here and living in the guest room. It actually works out OK this way. I just treat her like my 13 year old daughter (consistent with her behavior). This also means that I have a built-in baby sitter when I want to go out or need to run some errands.
Love to hear your take on this!
SD.
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
