The View From the Bottom

[hopefloats7]

I wrote H an email this weekend and I asked him to do me a small favor. I told him I don't know where he stands in his personal life, but if he knows he's going to file for a D (which he can now, we've been LS for over a year), to not wait until he's doing it for another relationship. I told him that would be very difficult for me to deal with, and I would rather handle it without someone else being involved in the situation.
I feel better that I said it. I kept it very short and to the point, and thanked him for understanding. I added I was not asking him to file, but merely expressing my opinion on how it should be handled if he's going to do it.
I could not handle it if in a handful of months he tells me he's filing and there is another ow involved. Maybe it was wrong of me to mention it at all, but I felt like I needed to say it; get it off my chest.
He won't reply, but I know he'll read it. That was the only contact I've had with him since Thurs.