Hey Nic ~ Sounds like you are doing pretty good and your talk with dd was awesome. I have tried to do the same thing. Sometimes it isn't always easy but I want them to like her and I have to remember they will only have one Mommy and that is ME! No one can compete with us on that. Not even close.

I will walk right up to h and ow and talk to h but I don't acknowledge her. I don't look at her or say anything to her. Maybe some day but she has done some pretty childish things.

Sorry I haven't been around much but you know where to find me if you need me!

Much love!

Christy
M: 31
H: 33
Married ~ 13 years
S12
S8
Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A
2nd bomb 12/30/05
Separated 01/06
I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955