Thanks Morgan.
Yeah, it was pretty surprising to me.

I suppose that there is a teeny weeny itty bitty chance that he would suggest an abortion for me regardless of our sitch; ie since we are pretty old to be starting over AND now is a great time to be going out and traveling, etc.
I think you said it well - it would be a life *we* created. It would be hard for me to just consider it "a bunch of cells."

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing