Thinking of you and you're doing a great job. Keep being good to yourself, be gentle to yourself. You're doing good by refocusing, etc, but if he isn't meeting your needs, IMHO, you need to point that out. Don't become that WAW w/o putting it all out on the table.
Just think the world of you girl and sorry you're hurting, but you are so strong and amazing that your life is going to be great. I know you'll handle this wonderfully!!