Is it time to cut him off?

[Trixi]

Oh- I just remembered one of the really negative things that was said.

We were discussing D's options w/regard to her pregnancy. She is only about a month along. Both H and I don't really believe in abortion;{no political debates allowed here} but H was saying that in D's case, maybe she should get one. (FYI, D says no way to that; she couldn't live with herself if she did. So it's not an option in her mind at all.) Anyway, I was surprised that he was suggesting that, especially since I know/knew what his beliefs were. He was saying stuff like "it's just some cells right now; not recognizable as a baby" etc.

So, I wanted to go about the question in a different way to see what his 'true' beliefs were. (ie, when does "life" begin.) I say "okay, well, what if *I* got pregnant?"
H "well, that's different a little different. We can afford a baby. <pause> but I would probably want you to get an abortion given our situation. <pause> of course, it would be up to you since it's your body."

Last year on our anniversary he was talking about us having a baby. This year he would want to kill it. Made me realize that he must view our chances of reconciling as pretty darn slim.